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Monthly Musings

Hello and happy Thursday !

My kids and I are chugging along on this five day school week. It’s been a major reality adjustment.

I’m linking up with Patty and Holly for the first Monthly Musings of 2025.

This month’s topic is…winter self-care.

1. What do you do to stay warm in winter?

Stay inside! haha

Truly, thankfully, if it is really cold, I don’t usually have to go anywhere. I never wear socks in the house, but if I’m cold, I will wear some fuzzy socks.

Even with our really cold temps last week, we never turned on our fireplace, but we usually do.

Of course, I’ll dress in layers. As soon as I get home from school, I put on a cozy sweatshirt.

A cozy blanket is a great way to stay warm too.

2. Favorite wintertime activity?

Staying inside! (again, haha)

We seem to have more downtime in January and February which means I get more time to catch up on my shows or watch movies.

I always love having a bit more time to read.

3. Any different beauty routines in the winter?

During the winter, I tend to have very dry skin which means I get out any of my favorite body butters.

Right now, I’m using the candy cane one from Trader Joe’s.

I always use lotion after a shower or for dry skin, but when my skin feels dry and itchy, body butter is the best way for me to combat that.

4. Skating, sledding or skiing?

I think I’ve been skiing once, and it was in high school. Growing up, we’d ice skate occasionally at Crown Center. Sledding is fun, but now that the kids are older, they do that on their own.

For years, we’d go tubing with friends at a place outside of Cincinnati, and that was always really fun!

5. Favorite winter recipes?

Chili and soups are my favorite recipes to make. Pasta recipes are cozy, but I will make pasta dishes all year, but I don’t make chili or soups outside of fall and winter.

Beef chili, Chicken chili, Bev’s soup, Turkey Rice soup, Sausage Tortellini soup

6. Favorite winter hot beverage?

There’s nothing better than a hot cup of coffee on a cold morning, and while I don’t usually eat breakfast, a warm breakfast, like an English muffin or waffle will hit the spot.

7. Best winter memories?

Snow days! ….and sledding down my front yard hill.

8. Coldest day that you remember?

I know we’ve had colder days in the past, but we hit negative windchill for the first time this year last week, and it was pretty cold. Homer sometimes refuses to go down the back stairs if there’s snow or ice on the stairs or the ground. Even when we clear the steps off for him, he seems to remember that there used to be snow/ice on those steps! Anyway, for a stretch of about four days, we had to take him out on a leash a few times in the front yard…and then, he decided he needed walked around the block to find the “perfect spot.” Ohh…it was cold taking him on that lap around the neighborhood for a few days.

9. How are you practicing self-care this winter?

Honestly, I’m usually in a pretty good head space in January and February. Those months, especially January, feel like one big deep breath after the hustle and bustle of December.

So having a bit of extra downtime during those months is a nice part of my self-care. I still stick with a routine of my morning “me time.” Even when we had our stretch of time off for the snow and cold temps, I made sure to make my bed, do skincare and shower, get dressed (even if it was just leggings and a sweatshirt), and even put a little bit of make up on. Even as the days ran together, it was good to keep a routine.

10. Flannel sheets…yes or no?

I like them, but we don’t have any on our bed. For Christmas, my mom got Hadley these cute penguin flannel sheets.

Hadley already loves lounging in her bed. Now, she’s extra cozy. That’s a blessing and a curse!

As much as I love all the months, and I certainly appreciate a snow day, mentally, it does end up taking a toll on us, and we are better when we are in a routine and out of the house!

I hope you’ve taken care of yourself this winter!

    Posted in Holidays

    The ABC’s of Winter

    Hello and happy first day of winter!

    So far this year, I’ve shared the ABC’s of summer and autumn, so of course I had to continue this series with…

    I know I’m in the minority, but winter is one of my favorite seasons. I love when it gets dark early, I get a couple of months of the twinkle of Christmas tree lights, the start of the new year, my birthday, and even the chance of a snow day!

    Here’s my ABC list for winter:

    A- activities:

    Hayden starts playing basketball and Hadley will continue with volleyball this winter.

    B- boots:

    I love my fuzzy boots, and we always have to make sure the kids have a pair of snow boots that fit!

    C- Christmas (and cookies):

    ‘Tis the season for all things Christmas and cookie baking.

    D- December:

    December is a busy month, but it’s always filled with lots of fun. From Christmas parties, to traditions, to baking cookies, and more, it’s a great way to wrap up a year!

    E- Eve: Christmas and NYE

    Christmas Eve is one of my favorite days. If we are home, we go to the candlelight service at church. If we are in KC, we are with family. For NYE the past couple of years, we’ve been with friends which is a fun way to ring in a new year.

    F-football, fireplace, and flannel pjs:

    We’ve been spoiled with the Chiefs in the Super Bowl the past couple of years, and college football bowl games are fun to watch as we cheer for the CATS and the tigers.

    Fireplace:

    I love when it’s fireplace season!

    Flannel pjs:

    I don’t do flannel sheets, but I love flannel pjs in the winter.

    G- gloves:

    Of course, we need gloves for playing out in the snow.

    H- hot chocolate:

    Hadley loves hot chocolate; a couple of years ago, her friend hosted a hot chocolate bar!

    I- ice skating/ice:

    Ice skating is a fun winter activity. Hadley and her friends went yesterday.

    Of course, ice is no fun to drive in and it can wreak havoc, but it’s pretty to look at on the trees.

    J-January birthday:

    January is one of my favorite months…maybe because it’s my birthday month?

    K- Kids playing outside:

    We are fortunate to live in a neighborhood with so many great kids who are all friends. On a snow day, they will definitely be out and about together.

    L-lights:

    Christmas tree lights….nothing better!

    …and other festive lights!

    M- (Christmas) music:

    Hadley loves the “Holly channel” on XM radio.

    N-New Year’s Eve and day:

    Happy New Year!

    O-ornaments:

    One of my favorite traditions is putting ornaments on the tree.

    P-Peppermint: ice cream and Bundt cake:

    I still haven’t had a Chick-fil-A peppermint milkshake this season, but I did pick up some peppermint ice cream at the store this week.

    I always make Shay’s peppermint mocha Bundt cake for Christmas Eve dessert.

    Q- quiet:

    I love the quiet that comes with a pretty snow…and a snow day! I also feel like January is a quiet month after the two busy months of November and December.

    R- resolution:

    While I don’t necessarily make a resolution for the new year, it’s a good time for a fresh start and getting back on track.

    S- snowman pancakes:

    A snow day tradition!

    T- three day weekends: MLK and Presidents’ Day

    Even after having a couple weeks off at Christmas, I still look forward to the three day weekends that come in January and February.

    U- unwrapping gifts:

    While I don’t love wrapping gifts, I do enjoy watching others open theirs. Giving is so much more fun than receiving.

    V- Valentine’s Day:

    While we don’t do a ton for Valentine’s Day, Travis and I exchange cards and go out to dinner at some point. We always give the kids a few things and send family members Valentine’s Day cards.

    W- winter weather watch/warning:

    I truly love watching our local weather guy when there’s the possibility for winter weather. Chris Bailey is a snow day hype guy for sure! In KC, I remember watching meteorologist Gary Lezak be so excited for snow!

    X- eXtra days off, snow days:

    Sorry for being redundant…but I love snow and snow days. The kids and Homer do too!

    Y- yummy treats: hot chocolate, Christmas cookies

    Calories don’t count in the winter and during Christmas. haha

    Z- ZZZ (sleep): no alarm and sleeping in on break.

    I’m on day two of break, and while I’m not sleeping in super late, it’s nice to wake up on my own and ease into the day.

    This was a fun post, but admittedly a few letters were hard for me to immediately come up with an idea. Oh well!

    Happy winter!

    Posted in Monthly Musings

    Monthly Musings

    Hello!

    I can’t believe it’s already the end of the first month of 2023! I’m so happy that Holly and Patty are continuing their Monthly Musings link up, and I’m joining them today.

    This month’s topic is: beating the winter blues…

    1. Something you do for yourself to beat the winter blues

    With it getting darker earlier, it’s tempting for me to come home and put my pjs on! That being said, I try to keep my routine as normal as possible. When I get home, I usually give myself a few minutes and then go ahead and get my workout in.

    Also, last week, for instance, the temps were so mild. After my workouts, I walked for about twenty minutes and enjoyed the sunshine while I could.

    2. Something you do for your family to bring joy in the winter

    Ever since the kids were little, I make snowman pancakes on the first snow day…and I still do. I just checked my stock to make sure I have pancakes and other good stuff if/when we ever get measurable snow! and…

    …I try to make Valentine’s Day fun. I always pick up a few things for the kids…

    …and the past couple of years, I’ve made a little Valentine’s Day lunch at some point in February.

    Travis and I usually go to dinner, just the two of us, one evening around Valentine’s Day.

    3. Favorite cozy items

    I love an oversized sweatshirt and leggings or pj pants.

    Cozy socks and/or slippers are a must! These are my new fave slippers:

    …as well as my new boots. These have been perfect to wear with the colder temps!

    4. Winter exercise habits or practices

    I keep everything pretty much the same which means Beachbody workouts in my basement. That being said, we tend to have a few more free Saturdays in the winter (cross country, football games, etc. take up time in the fall), so I try to take advantage of that time and go to the gym on Saturdays that I have the chance.

    5. Do you practice journaling or mediation?

    I write this blog. haha

    That’s about it. I do always try to start the day with some quiet time, and even at night before I go to sleep, I just try to calm my brain with a few quiet minutes.

    6. Do you light candles or use essential oils?

    I always have a candle burning if we are home. Lighting a candle is one of the first things I do when I wake up and same when I walk in the door!

    7. Bedtime rituals to promote quality sleep

    Y’all! I’m a high maintenance sleeper! I started using a weighted blanket a few years ago, and it’s hard to sleep without it. I’ve been using a sound machine since the kids were little. (When they were babies, they had a sound machine in their room that I could always hear through the monitor…so when I quit using the monitor, I missed the the white noise sound. So, that meant we needed one for our room.) Any app I’ve found isn’t the same, so we bring at least one sound machine with us when we travel if we can.

    And…the real MVP…an Olly melatonin. The package says you can take two, but just one is all I need. I only occasionally use these, but they are legit.

    8. Morning habits that help me prepare for a good day

    Quiet and coffee to start my day. If I had to wake up to an alarm and hit the ground running, I wouldn’t feel ready for the day. One day during the kids early elementary years, I forgot to set an alarm. We all woke up late, had to rush to get to school, and I clearly remember feeling so frantic all day. (which I didn’t like one bit!)

    I also try to know what I’m going to wear the next day, so I don’t have to think much about that. Some days I have my lunch made the night before…and some days I don’t. Obviously, it helps if I do.

    9. Favorite way to spend days off in the winter?

    I love a snow day!

    There have been a few times when major winter weather has hit and Travis has been home. He likes to try and be productive, and I have to remind him that’s not what a snow day is about. haha

    Now, there have been times when we’ve had a stretch of days off, and then we are eventually productive.

    Of course, the kids love to play in the snow which is probably their favorite way to spend a winter day. We have such a great group of neighborhood friends, and they all end up getting together to sled, play in the snow and run around. Of course, that’s gotten easier on me as the kids have gotten older! Now, they bundle themselves up and head out to play…checking in when they can.

    Our school plan this year is a mix of snow days and online learning days which is what we did last year too. I think that’s a good compromise considering we are 1:1 with technology, and the kids don’t have to get online with teachers. No one wants to be in school past May 31. I can promise you that!

    As I’ve mentioned before, January and February tend to be slower months, so I do try to build in time on the weekend to read, watch a movie, nap, and whatever else I feel like doing. After the hustle and bustle of November and December, I feel like I deserve it.

    10. Favorite winter themed movie

    Well, in December, I think of Home Alone, A Christmas Story, and The Holiday.

    When kids were little, we watched Frozen more times that I can count.

    In the winter, I also think of Serendipity (the first movie Travis and I ever saw in a movie theater together) and Cool Runnings. That’s a family fave for sure.

    This was such a fun topic to think about. It’s an unpopular opinion, but I love winter.

    Have a great day!