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Thursday Thoughts

Hello and happy Thursday! Well, where has this week gone? I had every intention of blogging Tuesday and Wednesday, but the week has just gotten away from me.

It’s been a while since I’ve shared an Enneagram post, but I’m doing so today.

As a matter of fact, I’d saved these @mirabellecreations graphics at the start of the new year, but never finished the post until now.

My type A personality likes to be organized…I feel so much better when I’ve written things down on my calendar, made appointments, sent emails, tidied up and more.

I’m a Enneagram 5w6, and these two graphics definitely ring true as ways to organize my life.

Type 5:

  • Create daily and weekly routines: Yes. Say less. I thrive on routines.
  • Set clear work and rest boundaries with defined start and and stop times. Well, when you’re a teacher, your whole day is dictated by a bell telling you when your day and classes start and end. While there are lots of teachers who subscribe to the “I don’t work outside my contract hours,” that’s never worked for me. That being said, what’s also rarely worked for me is bringing work home. My school ends at 3:15, and we are required to stay until 3:25. Obviously, I’m in the phase of life where I often have to get to a kid’s activity, but I usually do have 20-30 minutes when I can stay after school…and I do. Anyway, my point is, I know that sometimes even staying until 4:00 allows me time to get caught up or set myself up for success the next day. Probably an unpopular opinion, but I often like to stay at school on Fridays for a bit to wrap up the week and prepare for the week ahead. I figure the weekend starts as soon as the bell rings…I might as well have some quiet time to get caught up and prepare.
  • Organize notes and information you actively use: Yes. I have notes on my phone with daily “to do” lists along with other lists. I always write in my school planner in pencil, so that I can erase/move plans to other days. I have a sticky note on my desk with my school “to do” for the day and I always update it and cross things off. Then, at the end of the day, I write a new sticky note for the next day.
  • Schedule recharge time: Well, as you know, I start the day with quiet time. Then, if possible, I give myself 20-30 minutes to decompress once I get home. I often set a timer, so that I give myself some time, but I don’t get too far off track.
  • Let systems help you with the world more confidently: Systems and routine are the key for me feeling like I can accomplish my tasks but also have time for myself.

Type 6:

  • Build calm morning and evening routines that you can rely on: Of course this applies to me. I need 45 minutes in the morning to start my day, and I always need to unwind when I get home. Plus, I like to squeeze in a workout or walk most days as well as find time to read or blog.
  • Create short “what matters today” list to reduce overwhelm: This for sure applies to me. Just like I keep the sticky note on my desk, the note of my phone is helpful. I have a weekly note with appointments, kids’ activities, errands, etc…and it helps me space things out but also see all that’s going on….so then I’m not overwhelmed.
  • Use reminders and planners and reassurance, not pressure: My planner, calendar, and reminders just help me feel like I have a handle on things which I appreciate. Sometimes, if I need a reminder for something “out of the norm,” I set an alarm or calendar reminder to help me out.
  • Practice trusting plans once they’re written down: Well, I don’t know about this one…I write my lesson plans in pencil. haha
  • Let organization bring clarity instead of more questions: Organization always provides me clarity! I feel frazzled and unfocused when things aren’t organized.

Do any of these apply to you?!

Have a great Thursday!

Posted in Inspiration, Seasonal

Hello, March

Hello and happy Sunday! …and Hello, happy March! It’s hard to believe we’re already in the third month of the year, but I’m thankful for a new month with the promise of sunshine, green grass and blooming flowers.

@murphys_sketches always shares these fun graphics start the month; you should check her sketches out.

Here are a few March reminders:

…and…

*side note* the graphic above makes me want a bowl of Lucky Charms. ha!

I hope March is the best month yet!

Posted in Inspiration, Monthly Musings

Monthly Musings

Hello and happy Thursday! I hope the week is treating you well.

Where did February go? Did you catch my post yesterday? I didn’t get it finished until after school, so it was published later in the day. I shared the four books I read in February.

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Now, it’s time to link up with Patty on this last Thursday of the month for Monthly Musings.

This month’s topic is…ways we make our weeks easier.

I love this idea for a post, and I can’t wait to see what others share!

1. Paper planner, digital calendar or other option?

Oh…I use all the things! I will say that I rely heavily on the my calendar on my phone. That’s where I always put in appointments or even reminders to do things on certain days.

I still use a desk calendar and paper planner for school lesson planning.

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At home, I have a meal planner pad on on the fridge that I use to write down dinners, evening activities and my grocery list. I’ve ordered one of these once a year for the past five years!

2. Meal planning, meal prep or wing it?

As much as I don’t enjoy it, I do meal plan. At this busy stage of life, I feel like it’s the only way to ensure we’ll eat a decent dinner! I don’t do the best job at meal prep, and for whatever reason, I choose to prep a couple lunches on Monday evening rather than the weekend if I’m doing that for the week. I do “wing” lunches sometimes, but I don’t “wing” dinners. That being said, the past couple of years, I’ve started planning dinner Sunday-Wednesday, and then hope we have leftovers for Thursday. If we don’t have leftovers, we’ll have breakfast for dinner, grilled cheese and tomato soup, or I will have some groceries delivered to make Thursday night dinner.

3. Do you choose your outfit the night before?

I do try to have an idea of what I’m going to wear before going to bed. Often times, on Monday, I wear whatever I wore to church on Sunday. I typically wear jeans on Friday. I usually have “favorite” seasonal things I want to wear, so I prioritize those week to week. It just makes it easier to have some kind of a plan.

4. Tips for managing laundry and ironing?

Honestly, laundry hasn’t ever really been a daunting task for me. When the kids were little, I’m sure I did more laundry than I do now, but I guess their clothes were smaller, so it didn’t seem like a lot. For years now, we’ve pretty much done laundry on the weekends. Hayden tends to have the most laundry which results in at least two loads. I usually toss my dirty clothes in with Hadley’s laundry. Trav tends to do his own laundry. Sometimes, the kids will start their own laundry which is nice.

For quite a few years now, the kids have put their clean clothes away. So, at least that’s a chore that’s not too much for all of us to handle.

The kids have had the same Ikea pop up laundry hampers for years. When we rearranged Hadley’s closet, she needed one that was a rectangle rather than circular, so I got her this one from Target, and it’s perfect. It fits in her closet like we need it to, and it has handles to carry it to the washer.

As far as ironing is concerned, I don’t iron. haha! We don’t tend to have too much that needs ironed, and if so, Trav does it.

5. Grocery shop…in-store or online?

As I’ve shared for years, I typically place online Kroger orders, and it’s so helpful. For almost two years now, I’ve used the delivery option as well. I probably have groceries delivered twice a month, and it’s typically a few things we need on Sunday if I’m running behind on a bigger order or a few things at the end of the week to get us to the weekend. Just this past weekend, I had to go into Kroger to pick up a prescription, and I actually did shop around for a few items which was nice.

6. Best tips for getting out the door in the morning without chaos?

Uhh…we started the year strong, and now it’s pretty chaotic! haha!

As always, getting up before the rest of the house is really helpful for me. I like to start my morning calmly.

Also, I will set an alarm for myself to start getting ready to keep me on track with time. Now, if only the kids would do the same!

7. Share your easiest dinners for crazy weeks.

The slow cooker is still the MVP for us on busy weeknights. My “go to” at least once a month is my Fiesta Chicken. It makes a ton, and it’s easy to do.

8. Best tips to keep your house organized during the week.

We always tidy up before bed. The house is at least tidy by the end of the day in order to start the day right the following morning. Also, on Sundays, I make the kids “reset” their rooms. I kind of ignore any mess until Sunday, and then clothes need to be put away, random Gatorade bottles need to be recycled and things like that.

9. Share your easiest breakfast.

I’m not a big breakfast person, but recently I’ve been using the method that Amy shared with microwaving eggs. I spray cooking spray into a glass dish, crack two eggs, and I whisk them and then add a splash of milk and some salt and pepper. After about 90 seconds in the microwave, they are ready to eat. If I can, I sprinkle some cheese on top and add some avocado. Just this week, I’ve taken the whisked eggs to school and microwaved them when I need my breakfast.

10. Share your best overall tip not covered yet.

For us, right now, communication is key. As a family, we used to talk about our week e very Sunday with upcoming events or appointments, so everyone knew what was going on. We still do that, but recently, we’ve been discussing day to day about what’s going on after school…and for some reason three cars among four drivers has seemed more complicated than two cars for four drivers. Anyway, Hadley left school one day, and I had to call her to remind her that she was my ride home! She had to turn around and come back for me. Anyway, communication has been key!

What are some of your best tips for making your week easier?

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Target Tuesday

Hello and happy Tuesday!

Y’all, we went from winter to spring and back to winter so fast that I have whiplash. I guess last week was “fake spring.” The snowflakes were flying most of the day yesterday, but we didn’t really get any accumulation.

Over the weekend, I went to Target looking for a specific home decor piece (more on that below), and I had some time to browse, and I found so many cute things. Honestly, my apologies in advance for the number of times I say “cute” in this post.

Here are a few recent Target finds:

Well, again, I will share my latest obsession —these candles! In the past month, I’ve purchased two pink (pink lady and peony) and then a green (honeyed pistachio) and white (amber sunrise) candle. I’m currently burning the green one, and I love it. My store still had them in stock.

This right here is what made me go to Target…this “berry serving bowl.” I was looking for something to add to my coffee table tray, and this color is my color…and I thought it was just perfect. Unfortunately, once I got it home, I realized that it’s too big for the tray. I’ve looked and tried to find a place in my kitchen, but I guess I will return it.

I guess Target has a collab with Rifle Paper Co now?! I saw so many cute (sorry!) items…from bookmarks to mugs to a candle to stationary and a tote!

Ok, these mesh shell pouches make me want to go to the beach! What a great idea.

You know I love a packing cube, and there were a few Cat and Jack options that are so fun for kids. (I can’t find them online?) Ok…why did just typing out Cat and Jack make me miss when my kids were little and wore Cat and Jack?

These puffy pouches are adorable!

Love the “self care” one. I feel like teens would love these.

Hi, my name is Jen, and I love a scallop detail! This little planter is precious.

Have you all seen these? Little mini Reese’s eggs! Don’t tell my kids, but I picked up two packs and put them in my school fridge for snacking! haha!

I feel like Target has so many colorful arrangements…

I was making my way to the Chobani Creamer when these cans of Slice stopped me in my tracks. I was having a flashback to my childhood. I’ve heard good things about the Poppi Shirley Temple, so I thought I’d try the Slice version. I tried it when I got home, and it’s good!

I feel like Target has the best selection of Chobani Creamer….and cookie dough is my fave right now.

Another beautiful selection…I love the Mrs. Meyer’s products, but I didn’t stock up just yet.

I joke that Target “tells me what I need” when I’m there, but I showed pretty good restraint! That being said, my list is long for the next time I go.

What did we do before Target?!

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Monday Memo

Hello and happy Monday!

The Monday of a three day weekend definitely “hits different,” and while I know we had some time off recently, I always appreciate a Monday off from school.

I think I do a pretty good job not being on my phone too much. Of course, I’m on my phone for a variety of reasons like checking emails, answering texts, etc., but I try not to “doom scroll” too much!

Speaking of scrolling (ha!), I was on Pinterest, and saw this graphic and thought it was a good reminder of other ways to use our time in both creative and useful ways.

Creative:

Here are a few ways that I use time time in a creative way:

  • Journaling – This blog is my journal!
  • Drawing/painting – I don’t draw or paint, but I still like to color when I have the time.
  • Cross-stitch– I had so much fun cross-stitching a few ornaments over Christmas break. I hope to continue with that hobby!
  • DIY home decor – I’ve completed quite a few projects through the years, but not many lately. That being said, I do like updating spaces in our house with little touches like new candles and pillows.
  • Flower arranging: I buy more flowers in the spring and summer months, but I always love putting them around the house. Also, our limelight hydrangeas are always so pretty in the summer, and it’s fun to pick some and put them in vases.

Useful:

Here are a few ways that I use time time in a useful way:

  • Reading physical books: Ok…well, as you know, I love to read. That being said, I don’t read as many physical books as I used to. My Kindle is just more convenient for me to read (as well as audiobooks). But, I think reading on my Kindle shouldn’t count against me since reading is a good habit 🙂
  • Cooking new recipes: Well, if I don’t cook, how will we eat dinner? haha But, really, I do enjoy cooking…I just don’t love meal planning. Anyway, I like to try new recipes, and I actually probably make one new dinner a week.
  • Organizing and decluttering: Well, I do this all the time! I will say I do bigger “purges” after Christmas and during the summer when I have more time to do so.
  • Hiking/walking: I don’t get to go on nature walks or hike very often, but I do a good job getting my steps in outside…especially in the spring and fall.
  • Practicing mediation: I know it’s not exactly the same, but my quiet morning time is similar to meditation to me.
  • Self-care routine: I try!
  • Listening to audiobooks and podcasts: I’ve been listening to podcasts for quite some time, but audiobooks are still somewhat new to me. Audiobooks have been a way for me to read at least one more book a month.
  • Meal prepping: I do this in phases, but it’s always worth it when I do it. Meal planning/prepping just isn’t one of my favorite things to do.
  • Planning: Are you even a mom if you aren’t always planning something?!

What is something from this list that you do that’s a screen free hobby?

Have a great Monday!

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Sunday Reflection

Happy Sunday!

Last month, I shared a “Sunday Reflection” looking back on the week, and I think that’s something I’m going to try to share at least once a month. It’s good to look back on the week and to look forward to the next in regards to seeing what I’ve accomplished and what goals I have for the upcoming week.

  • What made you the happiest this week? Thursday, we found the time for a family Valentine’s day dinner. I’ve kept it simple the past few years with heart shaped chicken nuggets, mac and cheese, fruit, and rolls. It was easy, and everyone loved (and appreciated) it.
  • What are your three biggest wins from the week? Well, to start, getting up at 5:50 again after a two plus week reprieve is definitely a win. Also, just getting back in school routine was also an accomplishment. I had to spend time getting with my students reviewing their NTI work and then getting in the swing of a new unit. Lastly, I was able to cross some things off my “to do” list like ordering Hadley’s volleyball pictures, making a few returns, and running a few errands. (You know, little things that you just put off and wonder what took you so long to do them?)
  • How did you spend most of your time this week? Well, besides being at school, I spent a lot of time watching the Olympics. So fun!
  • What drained your energy this week? I think the answers might always be teenagers. haha! But really – I had to do an online SAT training outside of school hours and it’s frustrating how long it took to complete. Apparently, the only thing harder than then SAT is completing the training to be a proctor for the SAT!
  • What did you do for yourself this week? I was overdue for a nail appointment, so I did that Tuesday after school. I didn’t go too far out of my wheelhouse, but I did try a new color…Let’s Be Friends….and it’s kind of a combo of my two faves…Funny Bunny and Bubble Bath.
  • What’s the greatest lesson you learned this week? I already knew this, but for some students, being at school is their safe place. There are so many students who struggled being out of school for two weeks because of their home life, food insecurity, or just being out of a school routine.
  • What do you want to do better next week? I need to get back to planning lunches. My new “go to” is to buy a bag of Caesar salad and take it to school and then bring some chicken and low-carb tortillas and just leave those things in my classroom fridge. I can usually get two to three wraps out of the bag of salad.
  • What would you like to accomplish next week? Probably just what I typically want to accomplish –getting workouts in, focusing on eating better…and I need to get better about eating more protein again, and just continuing to get into a school groove.
  • What can you do next week to take a step towards long-term goals? I need to plan all of unit 3 for my classes, so I can see when the unit will wrap up. We have district common unit assessments we have to give at the end of each unit, and I need to make that deadline.

Happy Sunday!

Posted in Inspiration, Seasonal

Olympic Food Ideas

Hello and happy Sunday!

Yesterday I shared a few Super Bowl app ideas which sent me down a Pinterest rabbit hole of Olympic food ideas.

Pinterest has always given me great meals, desserts and recipe ideas as well as party ideas when the kids were younger. These are all easy and fun ideas to make viewing the Olympic games even more fun.

Olympic Rings:

Starting with…the Olympic rings…but with fruit. How fun! …and a great and easy way to serve something healthy.

Gold Medals:

The opposite of healthy and just as cute are these gold medals using Oreos and Fruit by the Foot.

Snap Happy Mom has a whole post sharing ideas for Olympic themed party including the two ideas above.

Olympic Torches:

How cute are these fruit Olympic torches? Alex Daynes has a fun post sharing four Olympic party foods.

Sip and Celebrate:

This drink is easy to make with bubbly or Sprite and some gummy Life Savers. Savannahsmiled.com has a fun Olympic Watch Party post.

I wish I could be so creative! If my kids had a birthday around the time of the Olympics, I would have loved this theme!

What’s your favorite Winter Olympic event?

Posted in Inspiration, Seasonal

Hello, February!

Hello and happy Sunday…and happy February 1st!

In January, I shared this post because I loved the graphic and all the good reminders…and thanks Instagram (via Pinterest), I found this one for February…or Feb-YOU-ary!

And another month of great reminders from @murphy_sketches…

I’ll be back tomorrow to share my Amazon purchases from the month.

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Bloganuary: 1.25.26 – Sunday Prompts

Happy Sunday!

How are you faring with the winter weather? It is wild how expansive this storm has been. We were supposed to get more snow than anything else, but the freezing rain moved more our way. So, we’re waking up to snow that has fallen overnight and some freezing rain too. Bitterly cold temps follow, so we’ll see how many days of school we have this week?

I’m not sure the source, but I found this “Sunday Prompts” via Pinterest, and I thought it would be a good look back on the week.

  • What made you the happiest this week? We finally found a car for the kids. Trav went to Louisville on Friday, and we were able to surprise them Friday evening. They were genuinely surprised and also, even better, genuinely grateful. They’ve only had their licenses for a couple of months, but they never once asked when we were getting them a car. They knew we were looking, but they understood it might take a bit. Of course, they drove it Friday night and a bit yesterday morning, but now none of us are driving anywhere thanks to the weather!
  • What are your three biggest wins from the week? I left school on Friday pretty caught up on grading and with a decent plan for NTI (online learning) days if we have them this week. A third “win” probably is getting the kids a car. Trav spent lots of time and energy the past few months trying to find them one in our parameters.
  • How did you spend most of your time this week? At school…but also thinking about/hearing about the upcoming snow. Wednesday and Thursday were actually pretty slick mornings with other districts out or delayed, but we weren’t. So, it just felt like Tuesday was our only “normal” day of school because Monday we didn’t have school, and then Wednesday-Friday, I felt like we were talking about the weather and prepping accordingly.
  • What drained your energy this week? Worrying about the weather. I wasn’t actually worried, but more than it was on my mind. I just knew we should get a few groceries. We had snack, lunch and breakfast items, but I just figured we should have a couple of dinners on hand. Trav tackled the grocery store for me Thursday evening, and he did get most of what we needed. Also, we were supposed to travel to Indy for Hadley’s volleyball, and even through Thursday, most of the parents felt like it was a good idea to still go. I felt like us and a couple other parents were the only “rational” ones. Thankfully, the club directors met Thursday evening and decided to pull out of the tournament as a club.
  • What did you do for yourself this week? I had my monthly facial on Wednesday, and it was lovely!
  • What is the greatest lesson you learned this week? Patience pays off. We stuck with our parameters for type of car and price, and found something good for the kids. Also, I already know this, but with major winter weather on the way, I remind my own kids what a blessing it is that we can just go to the store and get what we need…and that some kids would much rather be at school than at home for an extended amount of time.
  • What do you want to do better next week? Get back on track with working out. If you are a regular reader, you know I mention getting “back on track” sometimes. haha Anyway, I did great in December working out and even for the start of January, but last week, I only worked out twice, and I just didn’t feel like myself.
  • What would you like to accomplish next week? This answer is probably the same as what I want to do better next week.
  • What can I do to work towards a long term goal? I want to spend more time reading this week. Assuming we are home a bit, it will be easy to scroll my phone or watch a show when I could spend a bit more time reading. I read three books in January, and I have started a fourth, so I did read a lot, but I know I could find pockets of time to read more.
  • I love the reminder: This is your Sunday reminder that you can handle whatever this week throws your way.

I might try adding post, or something similar, into my blogging rotation.

Stay safe and warm!

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Monday Memo

Hello and happy Monday! How was your weekend? I spent most of mine in Ohio with Hadley for her first club volleyball tournament of the season. Overall, they played really well and had fun. New team, new season, so they are still getting to know each other and play together, but they did make it to the gold bracket on Sunday.

Did you catch my weekend posts? On Saturday, I blogged about the gifts I received for my birthday, and yesterday, I shared a “fun keep 3” post.

Today, I’m sharing a few of my favorite Instagram accounts to follow.

Many of my favorite accounts are teachers, and a few I actually found on Tik Tok, but then followed them on Instagram last year when there was the possibility of TT going away.

A few years ago, I shared some favorite teachers to follow, and now I’m adding more to the list!

Ashley Jones’s tag line is “teacher by day, server by night, mom of seven 24/7” and I love following along on her school days, Aldi trips, shifts at On the Border, and life with her kids. Her TT account took off last year, and she’s so humbled and appreciative of her followers.

Mrs. Miller is a 4th grade math teacher, and her husband is in the country music band Deltona. I especially love when she shares her Thursday after school videos. That’s the day she stays after to get caught up and plan for the week ahead. She and her husband did just buy a new house, and I love when she shares the updates and how she’s organizing and styling her new home.

Carly Barrett is an interventionist at an elementary school in Louisville. She’s also a colon cancer survivor. Her videos are a little bit of everything from morning routine, iced coffee, skin care, and how she spends her time at school.

Athena is just the sweetest! I believe she’s an admin/instructional coach at an elementary school. She has twin boys who are in college, and their family seems so lovely. She shares her perspective as an “empty nest mom” and has so many cute outfit ideas.

Kristen Friend is a first grade teacher in Arizona, and her “get dressed with me” videos are what usually pop up in my feed. She also shares school stuff as well. She seems fun and spunky!

Gabs and Anna are middle school teacher besties. They always share their “teacher outfit of the day” (that’s their tagline usually), and I bet they are the best middle school teachers.

KK is a new account that I follow. Her “heels in the hall” account popped up in my feed recently. It seems that she had a couple of videos go viral because now she is introducing herself a bit for new followers. She’s a high school principal, and I’m so impressed by her daily outfits….so professional!

Other accounts I’ve been loving even if they aren’t teachers. haha!

Brittany Young is so fun! She has the best personality and always wears such bold and bright colors. You can tell that she dresses to fit her bright and bubbly personality!

I appreciate Carly Heasley’s account because she’s “midsized/curvy,” and it’s so nice seeing clothes on a body type I can relate to. She seems so sweet and genuine as well.

Regan is so sweet, and I just love her house decor and her clothing style. Her daughter sometimes shares her outfits, and she is just too cute too.

Bobbi with the Eye is one that I started to follow about a year and a half ago, and I think she was close to hitting 10,000 followers at that point. Now, she is close to 150,000 followers and quit her day job to focus on being an influencer full time. She has two girls and the cutest dog named Tiny. I love when she shares her “day in the life” reels, and she shares so many great outfits too.

Have you seen Stoop in the City?! This couple decorates their NYC stoop for the holidays, and people can stop by for photos. It’s truly amazing how they decorate from holiday to holiday.

I hope you have a great Monday. After being gone all weekend, my “to do” list is quite long!